Tuesday, 18 May 2010

The Gallery - A Self Portrait

Tara Cain over at the Gallery really threw us a curve ball this week, with her prompt, but here I will let her explain because she does it better than I would.

"The theme is actually inspired by Laura at Are We Nearly There Yet Mummy who wrote something that really touched me a few weeks ago and I want to 'celebrate' it through The Gallery.

On tenterhooks yet?

She wrote about photographs of her mum, who died when Laura was just 9.
For someone who has been voted in the Funnest Blog category of The MADS, she sure made me catch my breath with that post!
She wrote: "Luckily I have photos, quite a few in fact. I don’t just look at the photos, I pore over them I wonder what she was thinking, doing, wearing … just any glimpse of anything that makes me feel a bit closer to her.
Now that I am a mother they mean even more to me . . . "

Well, I'm going someway to help redress that balance today.
Imagine in years to come, your children looking back over photographs of their childhood. Are you in it? Are you always behind the camera?
Our photographs are the story of our lives, and even if you aren't a parent you need to be in it.
I know many many people hate pictures of themselves - myself included - so if you don't want to post one to your blog just think about what I've said and start making that change.
And if you do want to put one on your blog, then GREAT.
Get creative, and show us all who you are.

So, this week's theme is: Self portrait."

OK so there you go there is the explanation for our prompt, it really got me thinking, mainly because I never have my picture taken, I just don't, its against the rules, strictly forbidden.  And this is because I hate looking at myself, for all different sorts of reasons, mainly I just am not happy with what I see and for this reason I assume that no one else will want to see it either, so I am always, always the one behind the camera.

But the prompt and the post that inspired it had me thinking about what smurf sees when he looks at me,    I know he just sees his mummy, I think he either does not see the flaws I do or maybe they are just not relevant to him.  So for that reason I took some self portraits today,  I am not ready to put them on the photo shelf we have yet, but I fully intend to be in front of the camera a lot more, for no other reason than I want my son to have the memories to look back on of all the fun and love that we shared, when time has stolen the event those photos will mean it can never steal the memory.

So thanks to Tara and Laura for showing me how selfish I was being and for giving me the opportunity to change it.

I cant wait to see the face behind the blog, go on over and have a look for yourself.

And I will post mine before I have a chance to change my mind.


  1. It's good to see the faces behind the blogs :)
    Hello *waves*

  2. Well done you and hello you! You're absolutely right, our children just want and see us for what we are - they don't care about lines or grey hair or no make up.
    I love blogs so much better when I know who I'm interacting with, so hello there Mum on the Run! x

  3. Hellooooo, nice to have a face to put with the name, your blog's been in my reader for a while so now I can picture you as I read!

  4. Hey - never mind the children! I just want to see you for who you are too. I don't care about the lines, the grey or the makeup either

    *waving manically whilst grinning like an idiot*

  5. Tara/Laura made me think too - I would hate to have no photos of my mum, so I need to get more taken with me in them!

  6. Hello gorgeous, I'm new to your blog but will definitely come back and say hello again xx

  7. *waving* Lovely to see you. Now, it wasn't that hard to post your lovely smiley photograph was it?

  8. Hello! I'm new here too! How lovely to see you and your welcoming face!

  9. It is very lovely to see you! Hello! Well done for being brave and sharing your beautiful smile with us all x

  10. Hello you! Looking good mamma, looking good. See you in Twitterville soon I hope, Mwah xxx

  11. Hello everyone(thats me waving like a loon), thanks you all so much for your lovely comments and for taking the time to stop by, having browsed around the other entries for the gallery, I would say we are a really good looking bunch.!!!!

  12. So lovely to put a face to the blog :) Look forward to chatting some more xx